I've
rarely been the new kid at school, as I've been home schooling since I was in
middle school and started going to college when I turned sixteen. In college,
there inst really such thing as a new kid. But then there's church.
The new kid is always identified.
The designated newbie
greeter automatically comes up to them and asks for the general
questions.
How did you hear about us?
What's your name?
How old are you?
Then the designated greeter introduces you into a group
that will take you in under their wing and spend time with you on your first
visit to the church. Sometimes you're remembered, or sometimes you're not. You
might come back the next week and get the same treatment because
they couldn't keep track of all the people.
I'm not bashing what churches do to greet newcomers. Not at
all. I think it's a great way to get people into church rather them just coming
and leaving with no one talking to them.
It's just I've been to so many new churches
more than I can count. I've seen the newcomer procedures done too
many times the answers almost come automatically out of my mouth as if they are
programmed. Church has always been a struggle for my family.
We haven't always
been accepted in for our background or our crazy genes. Some people look at us
with wonder when we tell our story, as if they have never experienced anything
like that before. It's like they don't really know what to do with us.
I think we may be more for them we
can handle. My family, we are Christians, but I would say we are not like
normal Christians that non-Christians perceive about us. Some people have
a mind-set that Christians judge everyone for their sins and are arms lengths
away. I totally get that because people have experienced that from Christians.
But Christians weren't supposed to be like that. Why should we judge
when we have our own sins? Why should we not be accepting towards others when
God accepted us and forgave us?
We are given a grand opportunity to
show God's love. To the poor, the starving the sinners, even our
fellow brothers and sisters in Christ who are sinners just like everyone else.
No one will be perfect, so why do
we push them away then embrace them with God's love?
Someone may look crazy.
Act crazy.
Think crazy then the general
population.
Think about it though, if they are
doing it in the name of Christ with passion and perseverance, then don't you
think God is going to honor it? Even if they appear a little different than the
rest.
No one knows someone's heart more
then God.
God is going to tell them something
more different than God will tell you personally.
My family doesn't do life
the normal way. We don't store up for earthly treasures, we live out the hands
and feet of Jesus.